To Loving Ourselves More


Submitted by Helene on Sat, 06/30/2012 - 13:42

Why don't we feel more fulfilled?

Why aren't our relationships more satisfying?

Why haven't we achieved our dreams?

I have come to realize that the "outside world" (i.e. the projects I haven't been awarded or the money that didn't come through) is rarely the cause for my unhappiness. My unhappiness is created by limiting thoughts I have about myself. This applies to relationships—when someone annoys me, it's because their "flaws" point out what I don't like about myself. These instances also tend to be times when I'm feeling out of sorts and self-care is required.

Knowing this, I can question my beliefs and take the next right action towards getting something better for myself. It all boils down to loving ourselves more—to having compassion for our weaknesses and appreciation for our strengths.


Absolutely True

Submitted by Career Coach on Sun, 07/01/2012 - 08:31.

Helene, I absolutely agree. It's easier to blame what is going on around us and outside of us--but that only brings more frustration. And you are right about the solution, we need more compassion and self-love; both are needed to really question our beliefs and make adjustments.