Being attractive isn’t just about your physical appearance. Some people just seem to have something that draws others in. What are some of their positive habits?
No small talk here
I don’t know about you guys, but forced small talk makes me uncomfortable. Small talk doesn’t always provide a real connection, so stay away from conversations that just pass time. Instead, try to engage in those that stimulate the other person’s mind.
All eyes on them
Irresistible people spend less time thinking about themselves and have a genuine interest in the person they are talking to. Ask questions to learn more about that person and show that you want to get to know them.
They live in the moment
In Jay Dixit’s article “The Art of Now: Six Steps to Living in the Moment” he mentions that “mindfulness involves being with your thoughts as they are, neither grasping at them nor pushing them away. Instead of letting your life go by without living it, you awaken to experience.” To start experiencing your thoughts, you have to stop being self-conscious. Don’t think too hard, just let loose and enjoy.
They’re always moving forward
A captivating person knows that no matter how tough things get, giving up is not an option. They don’t rest until they’ve reached their desired success. They recharge when needed and conquer endlessly. This not only makes them irresistible, but also admirable.
When someone is going down a rough patch, they not only want someone who will listen to them, but they also need to know that someone out there knows how they feel. One thing that makes an irresistible person so appealing is their ability to picture themselves in that person’s shoes and show empathy.