Being in a relationship can, at times, be more of a burden than a reward. A relationship is supposed to be hard work, but sometimes they can get too hard to bare. Do you think your relationship is just not worth it anymore? Here are a few signs that it might be time to walk away.
Your partner lies to you
They have a tendency to lie about who they’re with and where they are, and when you confront them about their sneaky behavior they only try to cover it up with more lies. There are many ways to find out when your partner is lying to you, such as their body language and the way they talk to you. Liars are never good people to let into your life, so why date them? They will only tell you whatever will get them out of trouble. If your partner is a chronic liar, it’s probably time to cut them and their lies out of your life.
They ignore you
What’s the point of being with someone who won’t even acknowledge you? Being with a partner who ignores your calls and texts is not only upsetting, but stressful. Your mind is constantly flooded with questions of where they could be and why aren’t you important enough for any response back, and that’s unfair to you. Also, if your partner is acting very distant, it could be a sign that they might be done with the relationship too. Find a partner who doesn’t make you feel ignored or avoided.
The worst partner is one who constantly disrespects you. Signs of disrespect include degradation, violating your privacy (snooping through your phone while you’re sleeping is a common example of this), and rude behavior. These traits can even lead to emotional or physical abuse. If your friends and family don’t like the way they treat you, it’s a sign that they may not be the best person for you.
You can’t depend on them
Does your significant other cancel date night every week? Have they made promises to you that they never uphold? Although it’s not good to be overly-dependent on your partner, you should be able to rely on them for at least a few things. Kick them to the curb and keep being the independent lady you are!
You put more effort in the relationship than they do
There have been too many times where you have found yourself crying alone because your partner makes you feel inadequate. It’s heartbreaking to realize that no matter how hard you try, your partner doesn’t put their best effort into your relationship. A relationship is always 50/50, and no one should be putting in more effort than the other. If your partner doesn’t try to make the relationship work, they obviously are too immature to be in one anyway. It’s time to let them go and move on to the greater things life has to give you.