Women are naturally the nurturers. Most of us have kind hearts, and we wish to see the best in everyone. But sometimes, people take advantage of our good nature. And we end up wasting our energy on people who don’t really care about us or the things we stand for. How will you know? Here are some sure signs.
Their eyes are NOT on you
They talk a good talk but when push comes to shove, they’re all over the place and 100 miles away in thought. Whenever you speak to them, they respond as if just to answer you rather than to understand you.
All get, no give
They expect you to be there in a moment’s notice if something important comes up, but if you ask for the same, they’re nowhere to be found. They seem to “put you on a shelf,” and only get a hold of you when it’s convenient for them.
You catch them writing a note or texting another “love of their life” after they’ve professed their loyalty to you. They tell you that “she’s just a friend,” but their exchanges are a little too close for comfort.
Out of sight, out of mind
If there is a temporary distance between the two of you, there’s no note, call or text. They never check in to see how you’re doing or what they’ll be doing. It’s as if there is no relationship to speak of.
Their friends are selfish
The company a person keeps tells all. Their friends seem business-like, cold and out for themselves, just like them.