What is it with players? Why do they think everything is a game, and seem to enjoy chasing after women? Some of these things might just have to remain unknown, but what doesn’t have to are these few ways to send that playboy packing.
Give him the cold shoulder
If you can smell that womanizing stench from a mile away and you’re not in the mood for games, then reject him straight up and don’t forget to show him the door. Not showing an ounce of interest will give him nothing to pounce on.
Don’t open up to him
Players love to lead people on. They feed on your emotions to make you feel as if there’s something special there. Don’t vent to him thinking he cares–because he doesn’t.
Don’t think those are sparks
You two seem to hit it off great and he can’t stop making you laugh–but don’t mistake those for sparks, it’s all a mirage. That’s just his routine, and you’re on his list.
Be confident
Let him know who’s boss. Showing him how confident you are will scare him away because he’ll know you see right through him.
Don’t smile
If you want to come off unfriendly, then keep those pearly whites hidden. Don’t laugh at his jokes. Make him feel as though his presence isn’t appreciated–because it’s not.
Let him know it’s not going to happen
Say flat-out, “I’m not interested.”
Mess with him (just a little)
Nothing out of the ordinary, just show him he’s barking up the wrong tree. If he ever asks you out on a date, smoothly reply with “What a delightful invitation, so sweet of you…but not even if pigs could fly.”
