Listen up guys. While every woman has her specific deal-breakers when it comes to men’s habits and tendencies, there are some things that are just unacceptable. If you want to have a shot, always avoid doing these six things …
Acting like you don’t care about anything
The hipster phase can be fun for a little while, but if you have no sense of drive, we wont be able to rely on you for anything. It’s not attractive to be too cool for everything. All we see is that you’re putting up walls to guard yourself from getting hurt.
Having generally poor hygiene
This one is obvious but necessary to include anyway. Please take care of yourself. We don’t need you to spend as much time getting ready in the morning as we do, but at least take a shower and comb your hair every once in a while. That really isn’t too much to ask.
Being rude to our friends and family
Sometimes women get blinded by how much they like a guy that they don’t realize he is being nasty to their friends or families. That is an exception to the rule. You must make an effort with the important people in our lives; otherwise, we will be forced to choose between you and them. And chances are, we will choose them.
If you’re always negative
We don’t need another aspect of our lives that constantly drags us down. We want our relationship to be fun and uplifting, something that helps us forget about our stressful jobs or fights with our friends. If you put a negative spin on everything, we start questioning what you add to our lives.
When you’re overly aggressive or bossy
We can take care of ourselves; we don’t need you telling us how to live our lives or acting like our father. We are equals, and you should treat us as such. Also, even if it comes from a place of wanting to protect us, being aggressive can be scary, and not being able to control yourself is a turn off.
Slut-shaming or being disrespectful to women
There is nothing less attractive than misogyny. Why would we want to be with someone who makes rude or offensive comments to women? It doesn’t make you tougher or manlier; it just makes you less worthy of our time.