When it comes to dating, everyone has their preferences. Some people want success and power while others just want companionship. When you’re out on the dating scene it’s important to be aware of your internal triggers and how they affect you. You’re a diamond so you’re looking for someone who can help polish you, not blur your surface anymore.
You understand the value of boosting yourself up but you hate when someone doesn’t know when to stop. Every time you’re around them it’s like they don’t care about what’s going on with you and that’s just not acceptable. You know your worth and you stand on it.
Nothing turns you off like a meanie. They may think they’re telling a funny joke or “just being honest”, but you (and many others around you) don’t see it that way. If they’re a bully, you take notice immediately and deal with it accordingly. You may try to give them a chance to improve but if they don’t you’re out of there!
Hygiene is a big thing for you. Everyone has their bad days but smelling funky 3-4 days of the week is just not healthy. You don’t want to be cuddled up with someone you know for a fact hasn’t showered in a few days. It gives you nightmares.
You have goals you want to achieve and you cannot have your partner’s lack of them dragging you down. You like someone who is ambitious and set on getting the things they want in life. Lounging around like a couch potato when you know there are things to do is just not your style…and can’t be your partner’s style either.
You like it when people open up to you. You don’t rush the process but you also recognize when someone is actually trying. A partner who is nonchalant or sending mixed signals is just not your cup of tea. You’re down to wait and see how things play out but even the most patient people have their limits.
There are very few, if any, circumstances where you could understand cheating. You believe in loyalty and the power of the truth so cheating is just not something you tolerate. You have a big heart (ha, get it?) so it may take you a little longer to regroup. But if they cheat and also show no remorse for it, you light the match and burn that bridge immediately.
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