In order to really thrive in life, we must master intimate relationships. So regardless of your status: Single, Divorced, or Never Married, let us share with you how to really thrive when it comes to your love life.
The answer is inside of you! That’s right, if you want your relationships to change, the only thing you can do is change yourself.
Please don’t stop reading here. We want to be really clear that we don’t mean to sacrifice, twist in a pretzel, or in any way abandon yourself. Actually we mean quite the opposite.
In order to bring in a beloved relationship and create the true soul partnership of your dreams, you must change your relationship with yourself.
We hear all the time about how people don’t have time to date, that dating isn’t “for them,” that all the good ones are taken. Every excuse puts the ‘problem’ outside.
We also hear how the problem is the partner: If only he would ______________? Why do I have do everything? If I don’t do it, it won’t get done.
The problem is inside of you, not outside.
If you are not putting yourself first and making time for you – how can you expect anyone else to do that?
Our relationship with ourselves is the foundation of what we see reflected back to us in the world. The world is how we believe it to be. You can find evidence of love everywhere, or nowhere – it depends on your beliefs.
Take inventory of your beliefs around love and ask yourself this important question: Is this True? (We put a capital T there on purpose.)
Invest time in yourself and make this important decision: Choose love every day.
Love is not something that happens to you, it is a choice. When we make the effort to choose love in every circumstance, we open our heart to receive that magic and bliss.
In choosing love every day, every day is a celebration of love!