1. Doom and gloom mentality
The sky is always “falling.” Nothing is ever right. The negative vibes they give off make it difficult to be around them.
Learn: Look for small things in your day that are positive.
2. Don’t feel worthy of love
They are overly critical of other people, but truth be told, they dislike themselves.
Learn: Even if you’re not feeling great, “Act as if” you are.
3. Always saving for tomorrow
Learn: Life is to be lived today. Do something special, just for you.
4. Don’t take pride in their accomplishments
Learn: Share a few things each week that you are proud of with a friend. (Make it a mutual exchange).
5. Hoard possessions
They are not generous.
Learn: Be a giver. Share the wealth and offer kindness to total strangers.