You are not perfect but you are accomplished. You have been working on yourself for many years and you are proud of yourself. You don’t shy away from telling someone how you feel, and you don’t wait to be asked what your opinion is, you voice it. But some men will be uncomfortable with a woman who seems to have her act together, how do you handle that?
Don’t be anything less than you are. Don’t try to make yourself into a pretzel just to please someone. It may seem to work temporarily, but that will never last. If you go against your grain, you will ultimately end up resenting the person, and YOURSELF!
Realize, they do NOT have their act together. Because they can’t accept you for who you really are, doesn’t make anything you are doing wrong. It is simple that they are afraid of your power, and don’t have enough of their own.
Have compassion. When someone is so threatened by your strength, they probably feel badly about themselves. But you don’t need to “fix” them, and it’s best for you to move on.