1. You feel more agitated together than when you are alone.
When you first met, there was an occasional fight, but now you find that almost every day there’s a disagreement. Overall, you feel more angry with your partner than loving, and being in this state is becoming very draining.
2. You look to find more time to be away from home.
Are you finding yourself avoiding being around your partner, and you get more anxious knowing you’re about to see them? Do you look for ways to include other people so that you don’t have to deal directly with him/her? If you find yourself answering “yes” to these questions, things between the two of you are heading in the wrong direction.
3. Your need for closeness is not being met.
When you come together in a relationship to share the good times and the bad times. One of the loneliest places to be is in a relationship where there’s no communication and fighting has replaced caring. You’re feeling empty because there’s little or no connection between the two of you. Little or no physical intimacy is a clear sign that something is wrong.
4. You find yourself fantasizing about other people.
You’ve always been a loyal person and don’t believe in cheating or lying. Trust and loyalty are qualities you value. However, you’ve had these uncontrollable urges to be with other people, and you’re about ready to act on them.